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Title: A Real Life Question
Post by: Goldfish XP on November 14, 2014, 10:56:08 PM
How do you fit in when you don't really share any common interests or goals with the people around you? Is there an alternative to loneliness?

I haven't really been active on this site in ages, but I appreciate any and all replies.
Title: Re: A Real Life Question
Post by: Agykoo on November 14, 2014, 11:04:36 PM
How do you fit in when you don't really share any common interests or goals with the people around you? Is there an alternative to loneliness?

I haven't really been active on this site in ages, but I appreciate any and all replies.

I don't share any intrests or goals with any one around me in RL, I get by just fine ^_^ (I lie I am sad all the time)

but on the internet here I got tons of friends ^_^. I suggest finding people here and around to talk too. since theres a lot more people on line and your more likely to find people who have inrest and goals as your self ^_^

best of luck! ^_^
Title: Re: A Real Life Question
Post by: Goldfish XP on November 14, 2014, 11:20:16 PM
I don't share any intrests or goals with any one around me in RL, I get by just fine ^_^ (I lie I am sad all the time)

but on the internet here I got tons of friends ^_^. I suggest finding people here and around to talk too. since theres a lot more people on line and your more likely to find people who have inrest and goals as your self ^_^

best of luck! ^_^

That's what I've tried, but it feels the same. And when I do find people online, it's not very satisfying. I need irl people that I can see and give high fives to.

Thanks for the reply though
Title: Re: A Real Life Question
Post by: Jectz on November 14, 2014, 11:32:12 PM
You have two hands for a reason. High five yourself ^-^ ::)
Title: Re: A Real Life Question
Post by: Goldfish XP on November 14, 2014, 11:38:55 PM
You have two hands for a reason. High five yourself ^-^ ::)

Shame I can't like this with both hands. Thanks
Title: Re: A Real Life Question
Post by: Jared on November 14, 2014, 11:40:46 PM
How do you fit in when you don't really share any common interests or goals with the people around you? Is there an alternative to loneliness?

I haven't really been active on this site in ages, but I appreciate any and all replies.
To be honest RL people are lemons. I just had a good friend that I knew for 10 years stab me in the back and took sides with my ex. I've made more friends over this game alone in a year then I had in RL (Sad I Know), but no one ever really fits in. Especially in high school. I got picked on a lot when I was a freshman due to my love for video games and studying. My own friends bullied me. I just ignored them until they went away. basically what I'm trying to get across is a majority of RL people are mean, rude, and only care about themselves. I honestly rather be alone in Real life and have a few friends on the internet then be careless people that walk this earth and bully others for entertainment.
Title: Re: A Real Life Question
Post by: crazytater94 on November 14, 2014, 11:53:15 PM
You will probably end up being friends with someone that you didnt even think twice about (assuming you are talking about school)

To make friends, just be nice to others, and be yourself.

I felt the same as you, I had a few people that I socialized with, and I ate about 90% of my lunches alone in the comp lab(darn intronet games is addicting)
And when I walked the stage for graduation, I knew that I was one of the most beloved people there when I heard the applause from my grad class.
Title: Re: A Real Life Question
Post by: Goldfish XP on November 14, 2014, 11:55:31 PM
To be honest RL people are lemons. I just had a good friend that I knew for 10 years stab me in the back and took sides with my ex. I've made more friends over this game alone in a year then I had in RL (Sad I Know), but no one ever really fits in. Especially in high school. I got picked on a lot when I was a freshman due to my love for video games and studying. My own friends bullied me. I just ignored them until they went away. basically what I'm trying to get across is a majority of RL people are mean, rude, and only care about themselves. I honestly rather be alone in Real life and have a few friends on the internet then be careless people that walk this earth and bully others for entertainment.

That's very true, but I like people. I live in a small town where half the population is related. Everybody here is concerned with sports, outdoors, drinking beer, and having underage sex, and I just want to hang out and watch movies or whatever it is people do. Video games y'know
Title: Re: A Real Life Question
Post by: Jared on November 15, 2014, 12:09:36 AM
That's very true, but I like people. I live in a small town where half the population is related. Everybody here is concerned with sports, outdoors, drinking beer, and having underage sex, and I just want to hang out and watch movies or whatever it is people do. Video games y'know
Yes I understand where you are coming from. Not all people in this demonic world are mean. Some are actually very nice, kind, generous, considerate, and supporting. I basically just described half of the forums and 15% of the TMF online community. lol
Title: Re: A Real Life Question
Post by: Jectz on November 15, 2014, 12:29:29 AM
A lot of real life friends like you for your stuff. So once you stop providing to them in the way you have been such as, free trips, snacks, homework answers then they automatically stop liking you. Online not everyone is like that because the most you can provide is something for a game. Or if you send gifts.
Title: Re: A Real Life Question
Post by: Jesse on November 15, 2014, 01:35:32 AM
Online oh online is the place for friends i have one good i stick around 250% of the time but not allot most is online online people cant physicaly harm you A (unless you give them your address) they cant make fake BS  of your lieing i want full 300 page long esay in words of why you lied B they cant laugh a something you cant acheive C (unlees you have the shydome of Word Crimes and i had issues spelling that) but if you really want to have 759577 of rlf then try this
You will probably end up being friends with someone that you didnt even think twice about (assuming you are talking about school)

To make friends, just be nice to others, and be yourself.

I felt the same as you, I had a few people that I socialized with, and I ate about 90% of my lunches alone in the comp lab(darn intronet games is addicting)
And when I walked the stage for graduation, I knew that I was one of the most beloved people there when I heard the applause from my grad class.
and dont do this

A lot of real life friends like you for your stuff. So once you stop providing to them in the way you have been such as, free trips, snacks, homework answers then they automatically stop liking you. Online not everyone is like that because the most you can provide is something for a game. Or if you send gifts.
and dont have a jeff state opnion just kidding  :P ;)
Yes I understand where you are coming from. Not all people in this demonic world are mean. Some are actually very nice, kind, generous, considerate, and supporting. I basically just described half of the forums and 15% of the TMF online community. lol
Title: Re: A Real Life Question
Post by: Jaz on November 15, 2014, 04:33:58 AM
Build your confidence, confidence is key.
Title: Re: A Real Life Question
Post by: RXZ x REPLAYZz on November 15, 2014, 04:37:22 PM
Why is everyone making out like all IRL friends are BS and only stick with you if you give them sweets, I really dunno what its like in America but all my mates have never turned there back on me for all the years Ive knew them, Just be yourself and let the haters hate! (or punch them ;))
Title: Re: A Real Life Question
Post by: crazytater94 on November 15, 2014, 07:03:37 PM
Because real life people are lemons.

I have made the best friends that I have ever had on xbox
Title: Re: A Real Life Question
Post by: RXZ x REPLAYZz on November 15, 2014, 07:06:56 PM
Because real life people are lemons.

I have made the best friends that I have ever had on xbox
Dont get me wrong ive met loads of good people and some have been really good friends Ive even added on Facebook but I would rather have my real life friends.
Title: Re: A Real Life Question
Post by: Jectz on November 15, 2014, 07:50:20 PM
Because real life people are lemons.

I have made the best friends that I have ever had on xbox
I did the same. But he got hacked and I've never talked to him since :,(
Title: Re: A Real Life Question
Post by: Goldfish XP on November 16, 2014, 04:55:32 PM
Thanks everyone